How To Get A Woman Fascinated With You

by Chris Miller

Building curiosity is one of the most difficult aspects of seduction. Interest brings about so many other things, like attention, intrigue and curiosity. A girl can simply ignore you if curiosity is not present. Before you can date girls, you must build interest. Remember you’re no more than strangers to each other. Women see you as a guy like all the others. Ladies have the choice whether to reject you or string you along. They can get rid of you and go for other men. But the power shifts in your direction once the women develop interest in you.

How can you start a relationship, if you’re the only one with these feelings of liking? It won’t happen. Luckily, there are some simple tips to building interest. Here I will discuss some of the effective ways.

1. Social Proofing

If an endorser is beautiful, you would buy the product she is selling. This is true even in attraction. If a woman sees that you’re having fun with several attractive people, she will become interested. After all, if all those people find you interesting, perhaps she should also find out what’s so special about you. This is social proof and it’s profound power in dating.

Take it from Entourage, where the uninteresting man begins to look distinguished because he’s associated with a handsome guy. It’s what we call the halo effect. It’s the endorsement of the people you hang with that matters. How can you make this work for you? Whenever you’re in a social situation, talk to beautiful ladies. Be sure to join a lively group conversation.

2. Banter

In the beginning, things are going well, but the tables could flip if your conversation is boring. The worst thing you’ll be able to do is to ramble on and on about yourself. You’re not desperate to impress her. Do it like TV hosts do, and treat your woman as your guest. The more she talks, the more she thinks the chat is fun. Of course, you’ve got to take the lead and segue in the direction you want.

The key to having a conversation with a woman is to disclose your persona layer by layer. Don’t reveal everything about you in one go. Keep the mystery intact by saying that there are many other facets to your personality that she should find out about.

3. Date

When a girl goes out with you on a friendly date, she’s doubtless intrigued by you already. This is not the time to be celebrating yet. The primary date is the extension of your first meeting. You are continuing the connection you had in your first meeting, in another setting. This is an important date because you are able to get her more interested by dating you for the long term.

Learn more about Flirting with Girls. Stop by Chris Miller’s site where you can find out all about The Tao of Badass Program and what it can do for you.

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